hux jdoN vrlz kbwzI kwp isrP iewk idn dI dUrI qy hY qF ieh aiqkQnI nhIN ik iesdy crcy Gr Gr ivwc ho rhy hn. iesdf muwK kfrx hY ik sfzf BfeIcfrf afpxy myilaF pRqI bVf AuqsLfh rwKdf hY. kbwzI Kyz nMU hr pMjfbI, mfx nfl Kyzdf aqy iesdf afnMd mfxdf hY ikAuNik ieh sfzI "afpxI" Kyz hY. ies nfl ivksq mulkF ivwc vwsdy pMjfbI hmdrdI vI rwKdy hn ikAuNik asIN vyK rhy hF ik XOrp coN sLurU hoeI ikRkt Kyz df pMjfb dy bwcy bwcy qy BUq svfr hY aqy kbwzI nMU lok pyNzU Kyz kih ky nkfr rhy hn. ijMnF iPrnIaF curfihaF ‘c pMjfb dy gwBrU juafn ikqy kbwzI Kyizaf krdy sn AunHF iPrnIaF aqy curfihaF ‘c awj klH ikRkt KyzI jf rhI hY. ijhVI pMjfbIaF dI afpxI Kyz hY AusnMU njLraMdfjL kIqf jf irhf hY aqy ijhVI ivdysLI Kyz hY Auh sfzy vyhiVaF ivwc pnp rhI hY. kbwzI Kyz df suMgVnf pMjfbIaq dy swcy aqy suwcy spuwqrF qoN brdfsLq nhIN hoieaf qF hI ivdysLF ivwc ies Kyz dy ivkfs df bIVf cuwikaf igaf sI. awj ivdysLI iswKF dy isr qy hI pMjfb dy lok pMjfb dI DrqI qy vwzy vwzy tUrnfmYNt vyK rhy hn jdoN ik pMjfb dI juafnI nisLaF ivwc grk rhI hY aqy Cy Cy GMty tI[vI[ skrIn nfl juV ky ikRkt dy twly vyKx jogI rih geI hY.

vrlz kbwzI kwp, kbwzI Kyz dy ivkfs dI iewk aihm kVI hY. iesdI sPlqf, kbwzI nMU sMsfr pwDr qy coKf bl pRdfn kr skdI hY. sLfied hI koeI aijhf nlfiek mnuwK hovygf ijhVf kbwzI dy ivkfs dI hfmI nf Brdf hovy. iesy krky myrf mMnxf hY ik vrlz kwp dI sPlqf jrUrI hI nhIN ieh sfzI mjbUrI hY, agr asIN kbwzI dy ivkfs dy hmfieqI hF qF sfnMU vrlz kwp dI sPlqf ivwc afpxf Xogdfn pihl dy afDfr qy pfAuxf cfhIdf hY.

vrlz kbwzI kwp afpxy afp ivwc ieh Gtnf hY ijsnMU GtidaF vyK ky sfnMU mfx mihsUs huMdf hY. ikAuNik 5 agsq idn sLincrvfr nMU hr pfsy pMjfbIaq dy ipafr dy smuMdr dIaF lihrF ivwc pMjfbI vIr goqy KFdy njLr afAuxgy. pMjfbIaq df suMdr srUp hovygf hYimltn df nwko nwk Biraf kfps kflsIam styzIam .

pMjfbI kdoN sohxy lwgdy hn ?

bIqy idnIN iewk inwky ijhy trYkt coN mYnMU iewk suafl pVn nMU imilaf ik pMjfbI kdoN sohxy lwgdy hn ? pr ijsdy juafb vflf pMnf trYkt coN Pitaf hoieaf sI. ijs ny myrI Auqsukqf vDf idwqI ik pMjfbI lok qF dunIaF qy vwKrI pihcfx rwKdy hn, ieh pihcfx suMdr vI hY iPr kdoN sohxy lwgx vflI gwl ikQoN afeI? ies suafl df juafb afpxI buwDI anusfr afpxy pfTkF nfl jrUr sFJf kr irhf hF aqy agr pfTk cfhux qF Auh pwqr ilK ky myry nfl sihmq jF asihmq ho skdy hn.

myrI buwDI anusfr pMjfbI mnuwK keI vwK vwK rUpF ivwc suMdr aqy keI vwK vwK rUpF ivwc bdsUrq lwg skdf hY. mUl rUp ivwc pMjfbIaF dI suMdrqf qF imhnq nfl juVI hY.

1) pMjfb df gwBrU KyqF ivwc Zoly gfAuNdf, moZy qy khI rwK ky nwky Cwz irhf hovy qF AusdI suMdrqf df koeI sfnI nhIN ho skdf. AuhI gwBrU agr nsLy vflIaF golIaF Kf ky jF sLrfb pI ky iksy KflyH ivwc izwigaf ipaf hovy qF Aus vrgf bdsUrq mnuwK koeI hor nhIN ho skdf.

2) pMjfb df koeI gwBrU Zol dy zwgy qy BMgVf pf irhf hovy qF AusdI rUhfnI KumfrI df rUp zuwl zuwl pvygf pr agr koeI nsLy ivwc Duwq ho ky izwgdf iPry qF aYnf bdsUrq hovygf ik Aus dI sLKsLIaq "krqUq psLU kI mfns jfq" nfl myl KfvygI.

3) afm mMnxf hY ik pMjfbI idl dy bVy suMdr aqy idmfg dy bVy qyjL qrfr huMdy hn. idl aqy idmfg df kunYksLn hoxf lfjLmI hY, Bfv agr pMjfbIaF vfly ijMdf idl aqy idmfg df afpsI qfl myl hY aqy ies coN pYdf hoeI soc pRfxI qy BfrU hovygI qF AusdI suMdrqf df koeI mukfblf hI nhIN ho skdf. agr idl aqy idmfg df afpsI qflmyl hI nhIN qF idl aqy idmfg ‘c ivsLy-vkfr hI AuqpMn huMdy hn, jo suMdr idl nMU aiq df bdsUrq bxf idMdy hn.

Auproqk kuwJ ku qwQ iehI drsfAuNdy hn ik jdoN koeI vI pMjfbI, pMjfbIaq dy rMg ivwc rMigaf rihMdf qF Auh iewk mhfn iensfn smfn huMdf hY pr jdoN koeI pMjfb df jMmplH pMjfbIaq qy pMjfbI kdrF kImqF iqafg ky afpxy afp ivwc ivcrdf hY qF Auh pMjfbIaF dy iekwT ivwc bdsUrq lwgx lwg jFdf hY aqy AusnMU pMjfbIaF dy iekwTy qoN lFBy hI rwKxf cfhIdf hY.

afE 5 agsq idn sLincrvfr nMU pMjfbIaq dI imsfl kfiem kridaF, pMjfbIaF dy "idl diraf" huMdy hn, dy aKfx nMU shI iswD krdy hoey ies sMsfrk diraf ivwc ipafr rUpI imTfs Gol ky cfr cuPyry "imTq nIvI nfnkf" df bol bflf kr dyeIey aqy kfps kflsIam ivwc pMjfbIaF dI suMdrqf dy aMbfr lf dyeIey.

drsLkF dy hwk aqy PrjL

ies ivwc koeI sLwk nhIN ik Kyz myilaF df sB qoN aihm aqy mhwqvpUrx aMg drsLk vrg huMdf hY aqy iksy Kyz myly df sfrf dfro-mdfr drsLkF qy hI inrBr krdf hY. BfvyN ik kbwzI iKzfrI, kbwzI pRbMDk, spFsr aqy mihmfnF ibnF vI ieh Kyz myly sMBv nhIN hn pr ieh sB kuwJ drsLk vrg dy iemiqhfn leI afiKr mMc qy afAuNdf hY ijs qy drsLkF ny hI mohr lfAuxI huMdI hY. ies krky drsLkF dy bYTx vfsqy cMgf pRbMD, vfsLrUmF dI shUlq, snYk bfr dI shUlq aqy grfAUNz ivwc KyzI jf rhI Kyz df drsLkF nfl pRfpr kimAUnIkysLn aifd aihm muwdy hn ijhVy Kyz myly nMU sPl krn leI jrUrI hn. ienF shUlqF dI axhoNd asPlqf df kfrx bx skdI hY.

iesy iswky dy dUsry pfsy drsLk vrg dy PrjL drj hn. drsLk vrg sPfeI, shUlqF df shI iesqymfl krnf, afpxI KusLI nMU dUsry dI isrdrdI nf bxfAuxf aqy iekwT ivwc afpxI KusLI nMU sImf ivwc rih ky mfnxf afid PrjLF qoN vI kuqfhI nhIN kr skdf. drsLk vrg nMU ieh Xfd rwKxf lfjLmI hY ik ieh Kyz myly mhIinaF vwDI imhnq df PlH huMdy hn. ies ivwc anykF vlMtIar vIrF ny afpxy pRIvfrF qoN lFBy rih ky ies nMU AulIk ky ies pVfa qwk phuMcfieaf huMdf hY. ies ivwc KfmIaF vI rih skdIaF hn pr pMjfbIaF nMU pMjfbIaq df sbUq idMidaF sihxsLIlqf df sbUq idMidaF pRbMDkF df sfQ dyxf cfhIdf hY. grfAUNz ivwc ho rhI Kyz nMU mnorMjn qwk sImq rwKx dI aihm loV hY. Kyz rhy sfry kbwzI iKzfrI, BfvyN Auh iksy tIm vwloN vI Kyzdy hox, siqkfr dy pfqr huMdy hn. afpxIaF BfvnfvF nMU iksy iewk tIm jF iKzfrI nfl joVidaF bfkI tImF jF iKzfrIaF dy siqkfr df vI iKafl rwKxf cfhIdf hY.

agr ieh Kyz myly sPlqf dy pfqr bxdy hn qF sfzy BfeIcfry df isr mfx nfl AuWcf huMdf hY aqy agr ienF ivwc Kll pYNdI hY qF ivakqIgq nfloN smuwcy BfeIcfry dI ijafdf bdnfmI huMdI hY. iesy sMdrB ivwc agr iksy kfrx sfzf afpxf mfVf motf GtfE huMdf hovy pr qkrfr smfpq huMdf hovy qF pMjfbIaq iesy ivwc hI hY ik sLihxsLIlqf df pRgtfvf kridaF afpxf GtfE huMdf sivkfr kr lYxf cfhIdf hY ikAuNik BfeIcfry dy ihwq ivakqIgq ihwqF nfloN vzyry aqy jrUrI huMdy hn.

afsLfvfdI hF ik ies sLincrvfr nMU vDfeIaF dI vfCV nfl vrlz kbwzI kwp KusLI KusLI aimwt pYVf Cwzdf sPl hovygf aqy drsLk vrg ies ivwc afpxf gih gwzvF sihXog dyxgy.